Why I cheat?
What leads a man to be unfaithful?
This is the question that women ask themselves since marriage feels like the basis of the family. Science has tried to answer it: man, according to some researchers, is unfaithful by nature, since his mission is to propagate his seed to procreate with as many women as possible.
But this answer does not explain those who remain faithful and dedicated to their partner throughout decades of marriage. Is it that, as has been said so much, the problems of the couple lead some to seek in another what they do not receive at home? Whose fault is it? Or is it that in some cases there are not even guilty?
The reality is that there are so many ways to answer our initial question, as there are men. Each one of them has their reasons. Here we present three stories that allow you to see what happens in mind ‘and the heart’ of an unfaithful man. What do you think of these cases? We asked them to be honest and to end their story with a single sentence: “That’s why I’m unfaithful.”
Why I Cheat? – CASE Studies
CASE: “SHE DOES NOT SUFFER”
“I consider myself a successful man. I own my own company, and I can not complain about life. My wife and my children can not complain either, because they have everything they could want: the house, the cars, the education, the trips. Nobody gave me what I have. Since I was very young, I studied and worked very hard to get where I am.
That’s why I think that in the same way that my wife enjoys my success, I have the right to do it myself. She loves shopping is her ‘game’. And when she is shopping with her friends, I ‘play’ my way. My hobby is not sports cars or expensive watches. I am an admirer of feminine beauty. I love seeing a beautiful woman in the same way a collector enjoys a painting. That’s why my reward is to enjoy the company of beautiful and fascinating women.
“Everything I do with a lot of discretion, of course. I frequent places where the sexiest women in the world go: models, actresses …
I do not look for a relationship, because I already have it with my wife and want to enjoy an adventure without consequences; of the pleasure of being with a beautiful and new woman for me.
“Many people do not understand that I love my wife, but being with an attractive woman has nothing to do with love; It is a taste, a necessity. Men can differentiate between sex and love, and an adventure does not make us want less to our wife. On the contrary, if I did not have that escape, I would live frustrated, and that would affect my marriage. She does not know, she is delighted with her life, and I am happy. Everyone wins here, and nobody suffers. That’s why I’m unfaithful. “
CASE: “I DO NOT FORGIVE IT”